I’m always ready to help when one of my friends need me. But it’s just disappointing when I’m the only one trying to help them when they’re not even doing ANYTHING to help themselves. It’s like how can I help you when it seems that you don’t want to help yourself? Of course I will try my best to help you the best way I can but also learn how to do things for yourself. I am not always going to be here to help and you cannot just depend on me constantly. Understand that I have priorities too and I don’t get how you don’t even at least TRY to do things yourself first. You just give up right away and run to me asking for help.
See the thing is I don’t mind helping people, but it’s when they DON’T TRY TO DO THINGS ON THEIR OWN FIRST bothers me.
You have a brain too and it has a purpose. Use it.